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BIRTH DATE: July 3, 1962 June 20, 1967
BIRTH NAME: Thomas Cruise Mapother Nicole Mary Kidman
CURRENT NAME: Tom Cruise Nicole Kidman
YEAR: 2002 2002
PROGRESSED AGE: 40 35
LIFE PATH PERIOD: 3 2
PINNACLE: 3 7
PERSONAL YEAR: 5 3
FROM BIRTH DATE
AND BIRTH NAME:
LIFE PATH: 19/1 13/4
EXPRESSION: 4 14/5
SOUL URGE: 9 11/2
BIRTHDAY: 3 2
REPEATED NUMBERS: 4 2
INTENSITY POINTS: – –
CHALLENGE: 2 1
MATURITY NUMBER: 5 9
FROM BIRTH DATE
AND CURRENT NAME:
LIFE PATH: 19/1 13/4
EXPRESSION: 6 11/2
SOUL URGE: 14/5 3
BIRTHDAY: 3 2
REPEATED NUMBERS: – 2
INTENSITY POINTS: – –
UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER—
AND THIS RELATIONSHIP
People form relationships for many reasons. Sometimes, they fall in love or find someone they admire. Sometimes, they want to make someone else happy or want to add interest and adventure to their lives. Very close relationships form when people enjoy the pleasure of each other’s company enough to want to share their lives.
Relationships, of course, are ever changing. They shift and evolve as the individuals in the relationship grow and get to know one another on a deeper level. No matter how good a relationship becomes, it can get even better when the two people learn to accept and love each other just as they are. As you continue to broaden your understanding of each other, Tom and Nicole, you’re likely to enjoy an increasing acceptance and affection for one another.
This profile can help you gain some of that understanding by clarifying your personal characteristics and motivations. It will give you a picture of the kind of individuals you are and, at the same time, explore the dynamics involved in your relationship. The descriptions in the profile are based on the science of numerology.
As you read this profile, you may find that you’ve already addressed some of the areas mentioned here. On the other hand, particularly if this is a new relationship, some of the issues discussed may not yet have come to your attention. In general, though, you’ll find that most of the profile focuses directly on many subjects of current significance in your lives.
You’re interested in the material world and may enjoy challenges related to business and finance. Whether or not you’re actively involved with business matters, though, you usually appreciate when others acknowledge your status and power. With your strong interest in money and possessions, it isn’t surprising that much of your activity relates to your material needs.
You have an interest in people, too, and derive considerable satisfaction from your interaction with others. At times, you give generously and lend a helping hand. On occasion, you also enjoy change and stimulating activity. You’re usually interested in new ideas and free-spirited ventures which can expand your horizons.
Your interests run in a number of directions. You enjoy change and stimulating activity. You’re usually interested in new ideas and free-spirited ventures which can expand your horizons. You enjoy people, too, and derive considerable satisfaction from your interaction with others.
You have some interest, too, in the material world and may enjoy challenges related to money and business. Some of the time, though, you may prefer to involve yourself primarily with your inner world and private interests.
Tom and Nicole:
Nicole, you’re usually interested in reaching and maintaining a stable and comfortable life style. You enjoy situations which allow you to grow and change with a minimum of disturbance to the stability you like so much. On occasion, though, when you can look beyond your need for stability, you may exhibit a strong interest in developing your potential. At those times, you’re usually on the lookout for favorable chances to enhance or expand your life.
Every now and then, Tom, when you recognize promising possibilities, you enjoy making the most of them, too. Much of the time, though, you may not be clear on how to develop situations with significant potential. It’s worth discussing these matters with friends or colleagues so you can get a better grasp of the situation and a better understanding of how to make the most of the possibilities.
HOW THE TWO OF YOU GET ON WITH
OTHER PEOPLE—AND EACH OTHER
Much of the time, your strong personality along with the forceful pursuit of your interests contribute to your important leadership potential. These significant traits, though, often interfere with your ability to be adaptable. Since you usually have such a clear picture of the best way to take care of a given situation, it isn’t always easy for you to appreciate others’ needs or to change your approach to satisfy those desires.
Sometimes, though, when you’re feeling particularly close to friends or family, you’re willing to adjust your plans so that others can get their needs met. At these times, you’re willing to put much more effort into finding out what will prove helpful to other people.
You can be flexible at times. When your own needs are involved, though, you often concentrate on yourself. When your needs are strong, it may not be as easy as you would like to reach satisfying accommodations with others. Close friends, particularly, may be puzzled by these lapses. On the other hand, when your own needs are fulfilled and you’re aware of others’ desires, you often change your actions to allow other people considerable leeway.
Tom and Nicole:
As you probably know, Nicole, things go reasonably well when you’re accommodating. If you find somewhat more argument and discussion in your life than you want, though, it may be worth stretching a bit so that you’re flexible more of the time. Tom, in particular, will be most appreciative of your increased adaptability. Spend the necessary time taking care of your strong needs but try not to lose sight of others’ needs while working on your own.
Since you can be flexible at times, Tom, you already have a foundation on which to develop additional adaptability. If you can be somewhat more accommodating with those you hold close—for instance, when some of your lesser desires are involved—you may be surprised at the difference it makes. When you make an effort to understand where others are coming from, you’re more likely to adapt to meet needs other than your own. You may find that you run into a lot less in the way of confrontation when you do that. When you combine this increased flexibility in approach with your strong personality, there’s likely to be a considerable improvement in your ability to relate to others—most importantly Nicole.
Your interest in socializing varies a good deal. On occasion, you receive considerable pleasure and satisfaction in getting together with others. When you’re in the mood, you enjoy parties. When another mood strikes you, you may be just as happy to spend your time with a few close friends. Some of the time, though, you prefer to devote yourself primarily to yourself and your own private concerns.
Socializing is sometimes important to you and sometimes not. When socializing is important, you generally look forward to attending parties and other get-togethers and in spending time with your friends and colleagues. When some exciting interest or activity attracts your attention, though, your concern with socializing frequently decreases.
There’s also a cautious side to your nature. You may hold yourself aloof—sometimes even tend to withdraw—when it’s not clear what kind of a reception you’re likely to receive. When your confidence level is high, you won’t have to deal with this kind of trying situation.
Tom and Nicole:
The two of you enjoy socializing with other people part of the time. Each of you also needs to be by yourself or working on your own private projects on occasion. Most of the time, you can plan your socializing with a minimum of problems.
There are times, though, Nicole, when you prefer to see few people and attend few gatherings. As long as you can make it clear to Tom that you want to spend time by yourself, the two of you can probably make comfortable arrangements. At those times, Nicole, if you can occasionally manage to spend some time with people who are important to Tom, that favor is likely to be much appreciated.
YOUR RELATIONS WITH PARENTS, CHILDREN
AND OTHER RELATIVES
It’s easy to see and appreciate the caring regard you often display with parents and close relatives. You take part in family get-togethers and enjoy spending time with close relatives, too. Much of the time, you’re available when your family needs you, ready to assist in a caring and responsible way. When your own interests are urgent, though, they sometimes override your usual concern for others.
When you show an interest in children, as you do at times, they’re often delighted. They respond particularly when you exhibit the joy and exhilaration you like to express. It isn’t surprising that you want to give a lot to your own children. On occasion, though, they may not have your attention when they especially need it because of your involvement with your own pressing matters.
A good deal of the time, you’re there to help out when parents and family are involved. You enjoy your relatives’ company, too, and allow some time for family get-togethers or smaller family social affairs. On occasion, though, your own activities may get in the way of your family responsibilities.
At times, you show your liking for youngsters. They enjoy your enthusiasm and delight when you choose to share that part of your personality. Naturally, you have a particular concern with your own children and generally like to give them the caring and attention they want. On occasion, though, you have to choose between their needs and your own. When your children ask more of you than you want to give, you may sometimes become resentful. Also, at times, you may keep your children from games or other activities that don’t feel safe or desirable to you. When you’re overly protective, your children are likely to voice their objections.
Tom and Nicole:
Both of you often show your loving concern for parents, children and close family. Your parents—and offspring, too—frequently get the kind of affection and attention they want. At times, you both pitch in and help with family matters when help is needed. Sometimes, too, you share the responsibilities with each other when the load is heavy. When either of you display the lighter side of your nature, it may be very helpful in reducing the tension in trying situations.
Both of you have other needs and interests that may sometimes take precedence over family obligations. It would be worthwhile to clarify your mutual needs and concerns so that one of you can take over family obligations when the other is caught up in outside interests. On occasion, too, Nicole, when you’re overly protective, you may prefer that Tom take care of family affairs, particularly in regard to the children.
HOW THE TWO OF YOU GET ALONG
EMOTIONALLY AND SEXUALLY
YOUR SENSITIVITY TO YOUR OWN AND
EACH OTHERS’ FEELINGS
Tom and Nicole:
Your sensitivities can often be of help to each of you. At times, you both have a good sense of your own feelings and can be perceptive enough to pick up on other people’s feelings, too. You can sense when people’s moods change and can adjust your own approach to take those changes into account.
On occasion, though, when one or the other of you share your insights and find that your views aren’t accepted, you may feel hurt or resentful. When this happens, you may want to do some inner searching to get a better understanding of yourself. Until you get to know this area better, you may choose to play down your sensitivity so that you feel less vulnerable.
At those times when you’re both sensitive, you can achieve a special harmony that’s likely to add a closeness to your relationship that the two of you appreciate. When either of you isn’t sensitive to the other—for whatever reason—that intimacy isn’t likely to be present. Try to maintain your usual awareness when you’re concerned that the other might not be understanding of your feelings. That extra effort on both your parts could count for a lot between you.
YOUR ABILITY TO COMMUNICATE
Tom and Nicole:
The two of you are often willing to discuss most matters in a free and easy manner. The lively side of your natures is frequently apparent in your conversations. Others are aware of the inborn spirit you both possess even if you don’t choose to emphasize it all the time. You can usually tell other people how you’re feeling. Most of the time, too, you communicate reasonably well together and that draws you closer together. For both of you, though, as for many other people, your emotions sometimes get in the way.
When either of you hold back your feelings, it may be difficult for the other to deal with these repressed emotions. When one or the other of you expresses feelings more mildly than you’re actually feeling them—irritation, for instance, rather than the full-blown anger you actually feel—the communication isn’t likely to be clear, either. Your communication with each other—as well as with other people—can improve markedly as you both learn to clarify your feelings.
YOUR ABILITY TO GIVE LOVE AND AFFECTION
Tom and Nicole:
Each of you has an affectionate side and can often be tender and admiring. You both frequently demonstrate an involved and caring approach. You’re likely to be devoted to each other much of the time. On occasion, though, when you’re not certain what kind of a reception you’ll receive when you display your affections, the two of you are likely to hold back on your feelings. You may also limit the affection you give to each other because of some temporary concern about the other’s willingness to respond. At these times, it would be worthwhile to discuss and resolve any dissatisfactions or misunderstandings that seem to be standing in the way.
YOUR PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY
In your sexual activities, you frequently express your desire for intimacy along with the passionate side of your personality. You enjoy showing your affectionate nature and receiving similar tenderness in return. You enjoy a sense of excitement and variety in sex, too. A sense of intimacy along with some variety is an ideal combination for you.
You want a sense of closeness in your intimate relations. You often display your loving side and find satisfaction when that love is reciprocated. You also enjoy the diversity and adventure often associated with sex. When you can have both the intimacy and the diversity, you receive considerable pleasure. If you don’t find it easy to discuss your sexual desires, though, it may not always be apparent to others what you would like in this area. When you can discuss your needs openly you’ll be more likely to get what you want.
Tom and Nicole:
You have similar needs for intimacy. The two of you can often give to one another—as long as you each are willing to make the effort to understand the other’s desires. In addition, the variety you both bring to your sexual activities can increase your mutual pleasure. The sexual part of your relationship, then, should provide the two of you with satisfaction.
HOW YOU BOTH DEAL WITH MONEY,
BUSINESS AND POSSESSIONS
YOUR APPROACH TO MATERIAL AFFAIRS
By and large, you’re usually realistic about material matters. When you’re resolving personal concerns—major purchases for your home, for instance, or planning vacations—you tend to be rational. When you’re involved with work or career, your conclusions are generally based on a reasonable view of the facts at hand. You may get upset or excited a bit more than others, though, causing your objectivity to lose its edge. In these situations, you may not analyze the facts with the kind of care you usually use. Most of the time, however, your sense of realism shines through.
When you’re working on the practical affairs that concern you—matters related to your work or personal life—you’re reasonably objective much of the time. When you are guided by your idealism or find your emotions intensified, though, your realism may sometimes desert you. When you’re worried that others may not be properly considering your interests, you also may not see the picture as clearly as usual. When you calm down again, your discrimination and powers of analysis usually return quickly. By and large, you have a good grasp of the facts. Your findings generally appear to rest on a grounded view of reality.
Tom and Nicole:
You can often work together comfortably on material matters. Much of the time, you look at the world with a similar sense of realism and objectivity. When you’re involved with material affairs, you frequently see the facts of the matter in much the same way. When you each get emotional, though, your strong feelings may distort your approach. In addition, Nicole, you occasionally get somewhat dreamy and considerably less objective. At these times, both of you aren’t seeing matters with your usual clarity. At times when either of you lose your objectivity—for whatever reason—it may take a bit of effort for the objective person to help the other to see matters more realistically.
YOUR CAPABILITY IN THE BUSINESS WORLD
YOUR ABILITY TO EARN A LIVING
Your potential for significant achievement is certainly there. You have the ability to do well in business and to be amply compensated. You understand money and financial matters, and have excellent executive skills. If you can run your own firm or have a significant administrative position in someone else’s firm, your needs in this area should be well satisfied. If you’re not involved directly with business matters, you may put some of your management skill to good use in your avocations or your private life instead.
You can do well in the business world when you choose to use your management or organizational capabilities. Your ability to produce and maintain order is a special skill which may bring you considerable satisfaction. You can also work hard, often when complex details are involved, with good results. When you combine these business capabilities with some of your other talents, you may be able to make an even greater impact. You may feel just as comfortable, though, making use of these skills in places other than the business world.
Tom and Nicole:
Tom, your assertiveness, determination and strong motivation will be of great help in your business achievements. Your unique approaches along with your ability to work long and hard will also stand you in good stead. There’s a fixity, though, Tom, and an individualistic manner that sometimes goes along with your driving approach. They may, on occasion, alienate some of your colleagues and slow your own advance. You can make more of your business potential when you’re more flexible and operate with a lighter touch. Nicole, you also have good business ability but you aren’t necessarily inclined in that direction. When you choose, though, to make use of your business skills along with your ability to work long and hard, you may produce good results. You exhibit a stubbornness, too, Nicole, that at times may annoy some of your associates. When you’re more yielding, you’ll find that you can move ahead more easily.
YOUR MUTUAL AMBITIONS
Tom and Nicole:
Tom, you want a comfortable material life. You have some ambition and often work toward your objectives with vigor. You’re frequently willing to tolerate a good deal of strain in pursuing your material goals. You have some ambition, too, Nicole, but it’s usually less pressing than Tom’s. You’re generally far more interested in the excitement of your ventures than in the money or recognition that may be forthcoming at their completion. On occasion, though, you accept quite a bit of stress in these activities, too.
At times, there may be some pressure in your relationship, brought on by the strains in your business ventures. You both may want to clarify whether the gains are worth the problems generated by the stresses. The two of you may also want to discuss your respective efforts and contributions in finance and business. You may need these discussions so that you both remain comfortable with your differing material outlooks.
HOW THE OPPORTUNITIES AND
INFLUENCES IN 2002 WILL AFFECT
YOUR LIVES TOGETHER
At this time in your life, Tom, you’re likely to have a desire to expand your interests and develop your creativity. You also want to enjoy yourself on the lighter side of life. This could be a satisfying period, with many opportunities for fun, adventure and new exciting friends. Although the opportunities are undoubtedly present, you have to feel free enough to seize the opportunities so that you can make the most of them. Try to offset the frivolous nature of some of your activities by the serious development of your creative ability. Don’t let yourself be bullied by anyone trying to take advantage of your fun-loving side.
The broad ongoing concerns just described may occupy you for a number of years. Of more immediate effect in your daily life, though, are the specific areas of interest which attract you. Let’s look at the specific areas on which you’re apt to focus your attention in 2002.
This could be a year with a great deal of variety and excitement. Be prepared to make some important changes in 2002, mostly changes that you initiate yourself. These changes will usually play a significant role in opening up new and advantageous opportunities.
You’re likely to have a strong desire to expand your horizons this year as well as to take part in the many new experiences that seem to come your way. This is a perfect time to make and enjoy new friends, have adventures, travel and enjoy all sorts of social activities. Above all, 2002 is a time to delight in freedom, to move away from old routines, and to seek out new interests.
Make the most of the excitement and progressive potential this year without, if possible, overdoing it. The odds are good that there are far more opportunities this year than you can deal with comfortably. Although it may take all your effort, try to pick and choose carefully and follow through only on the opportunities with the greatest potential. With your restlessness, impatience and impulsiveness, it may be difficult for you not to try to take advantage of everything that comes your way. If you succumb to your usual feelings, you may find yourself overwhelmed with opportunity and incapable of making progress in any direction.
Although you may have a lot of fun, excitement and adventure in 2002, you may end the year with considerable frustration if you feel that many significant opportunities have slipped through your fingers. This could be a special year for you, though, if you’ve learned how to control your restlessness.
You’re apt to have an interest in getting to know yourself better at this time, Nicole. In all likelihood, you want to spend more time alone than you usually do—studying, doing research or meditating—so that you can become more aware of your inner needs. You may also want to use this quiet time to become more spiritually aware. There’s an excellent prospect that you’re concerned, too, with developing your close personal relations, your sensitivity to others and your ability to give in the way of friendship, affection and love. Sometimes, your introspective needs are likely to take precedence but, at other times, your people-oriented needs may be more compelling. This can be an important period when your sensitivity to yourself and other people can be markedly improved.
You may be occupied for several years with the general interests described above. In addition to those general interests, though, there are a few specific areas of concern which have a much stronger impact on your daily life. Let’s examine the specific areas of concern which are likely to attract your attention in 2002.
This year can be both exciting and fulfilling, particularly if you can express the joy that you feel in life with great cheer and enthusiasm. If you are fully aware of the pleasures and happiness in your environment, this could prove to be a very special time. There may be lots of friends and social life and, possibly, much delight involving love and romance. With a little luck, you may often have minimal responsibilities. If that’s the case, you may have considerable time to play and enjoy the lighter side of life. If, on the other hand, you find yourself burdened with responsibilities, it’s important to allow some time to leave those obligations behind so that you can rejuvenate yourself. This year may be the time to take that special trip you’ve always dreamed about.
This is a good time to express your creativity. Although you have a lot of creative potential, you may still not be using it fully. Unless you trust your good intuition and make the most of your distinctive creative imagination, you’re likely to be impeding your progress. If you appear too critical or overly sensitive, you may offend some of the people who could prove of help to you. Try not to scatter your substantial energies. When you’re self-indulgent or extravagant—possibly more often than you care to admit—you’re likely to run into problems.
Tom and Nicole:
This could be an exciting year for the two of you. Chances are that you’ll both experience considerable change and variety. Both of you are likely to have a good deal of new and intriguing activity throughout the year.
Make sure you both express your feelings well so that your mutual communication remains clear. If you’re both involved in the same activities, you may have many chances to enjoy each other and to further your relation. Try to keep a balanced perspective, though, so that your energy is used as constructively as possible. Otherwise, one or the other of you may finish 2002 with little sense of accomplishment—and a good deal of frustration.
If you’re each involved in different ventures, make sure you allow enough time to spend together. At the least, make time regularly to discuss problems as they arise. Make sure that the smaller problems between you don’t get blown out of proportion and cause rifts in the relationship. You can be of considerable service if you can objectively view each other’s activities and help each other to stay reasonably grounded. If you can both maintain a good balance, this can prove to be a very busy and very satisfying year.
WHAT YOU CAN BOTH EXPECT
FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP
Tom and Nicole:
The two of you now have a good idea of your significant personality traits as described by numerology. You have a good idea, too, of how you can expect to be treated by each other—and how you both relate to parents, children and friends. You’re also aware of your corresponding traits in regard to business and financial matters.
The beauty and success of your relationship is partly dependent on these characteristics as well as the efforts the two of you are willing to make to more fully understand and appreciate each other. The significant interest that you both have in people forms an important link between you. Both of you may also have some involvement with business affairs and enjoy material possessions. In addition, Nicole, you have a strong desire to explore the excitement and variety in the world around you. When you both share some of your experiences in these areas with each other, the two of you may derive considerable closeness and pleasure. Don’t be surprised, though, if there’s a certain amount of give and take involved before you feel completely comfortable together. The differences in your personalities may serve as opportunities to learn from each other’s strengths.
The concern, trust and good will that you both have for the other are of considerable importance. There’s one factor, though, that matters more than all others in making this a successful relationship. A good life together depends on the extent of your personal commitment to help each other develop, both as individuals and as part of a loving couple.